If only I could learn once and for all, that every time I attempt to live my life like someone else is living theirs, I am going to fail. It is a losing battle, because I was not created to be that person, equipped to live their life, I have a life laid out before me that only I can live, because it is mine. I need to own it. And cherish it. All of the mistakes and struggles along with the joys and triumphs, my gifts and my shortcomings. Comparison is deadly to dreams and goals. See the truth. Learn the lesson. Repeat.